Aww sorry to hear that S
Definitely try Dial and as your fella cares for you , see if there are any Carer charities that could assist .
The Guidance in the previous post should help as should this
linkKey though is getting evidence , including a diary , examples of where you struggle, consultants reports , GP reports , Occ health reports , for both the RA and Fibro and any other diagnoses.
Definitely give the NRAS helpline a ring as they will be able to help 0800 298 7650 .
I take it your work knows about the illness and issues you face and are making reasonable adjustments. There is also
Access to Work finance to help you remain in work.
Don't forget if you are turned down you have the right of appeal if you appeal within one month of the decision ( with good cause you can appeal up to 13 months of the decision , however good cause is defined in law)
Good advice now document on
DLA appealsMore tips for form filling from
Shropshire ME GroupHope this helps
Rich C
"The difference between 'involvement' and 'commitment' is like an eggs-and-ham breakfast: the chicken was 'involved' - the pig was 'committed'."